I have finally concluded that my Aussie girlfriend ghositng me was wrong...

I'm not sure if you guys remember that whole ordeal? : /

I would like to apologize for the stuff I put you guys through during that time.

I was going through a LOT of pain due to her ghosting me - ghosting... Ghosting wikipedia

And I need to apologize to everyone here on ICOM who had to witness all of that....

But I have finally concluded once and for all that her ghosting me was definitely wrong.

It was definitely predatory.

She did it to hurt me.

She is still doing it, actually... : P

Though she popped up every now and then on GLP to say things to me....... things that I think she thought was funny...

I'm not sure if they were :P... maybe, not sure though.

And um... yeah, I think I'm now just starting to realize what has been going on the last year or so..........

And that is how long she has been "ghosting" me....

And....... Yeah...... I really need to apologize to everyone who had witnessed that whole thing here on ICOM......

I also feel that I was being selfish by using ICOM back then to talk about that stuff.

Kinda feel pretty selfish doing that right now : P

: P

At the very least.... I apologize for putting you guys through that.

Yeah so.... I went for a walk after I posted here, right?

And towards the end of the walk, after thinking to myself about how horrible what she did to me was....... like towards the end, I suddenly just decided that none of what she did was wrong.

That's it.

Literally none of what she did is or was wrong.

Period.

That's it. Period.

I'm so sorry guys lol

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I was ghosted by one of my best friends. It still hurts.

Do you still want to get in contact with her?

Well I have learned that if you really want something, you will get it....... and it may or may not be easy......

You just have to really want it...

I have also learned and seen that you never know what is in the future, and she may come back into your life at some point.

Oh - and also....

If you love someone..... they love you back equally.

That is a fact.

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Well, you need to learn to let go sometimes.

Let go of what?

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Oh - and also....

If you love someone..... they love you back equally.

That is a fact.

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This is very important to know. It's very true.

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You can't make someone love you.

Well, I have had multiple people "ghost" me to various degrees.... and I can say for sure that all of them love me : D

Being "uninvolved" is like.... how they interact with you, in certain situations.

Just because they aren't talking to you, does not mean they do not love you....

Definitely.

If you want to get in touch with your friend again, you will.

God knows what God is doing! : D

I'm sorry, but I just have to post this -

And then this -