Lol
This poor guy
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Whenever he would call me during the day he would ask me where I was at. One time I asked him why do you want to know do you like put a little pin on a map every time I tell you and then eventually you'll be able to coordinate where I might be?
Lol
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I'm thinking this guy has a hair doll of you. In case you don't know what that is it's when some weirdo collects strands of your hair and makes a doll out of it.
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the other day I felt like crying thinking about Herb and how I've just been ignoring him for a few weeks now. He slowed way down in texting or trying to call, though I did see he called the other day.
I feel horrible thinking about how he must feel and what he must be thinking. Really sad for me.
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well Herb called me yesterday and I decided to answer.
I told him I have just been busy and tired. Her was cool - didn't ask "what the hell??" or anything. Just nice Herb.,
At one point we were talking about computers and I asked if I'd told him I had built another. He said he didn't think so, and I said well it was a couple months ago. He said - well I haven't spoken to you in a few months. Really?? That shocked me it's been that long.
He's a good guy.,
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Don't string him along!
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Just start telling him about females that you're into. If he's a 'nice guy' that'll be more than sufficient.
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I'm starting to come around to the notion that maybe honesty is sometimes the best policy. On occasion...
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I'm starting to come around to the notion that maybe honesty is sometimes the best policy. On occasion...
Situational
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I try to turn it around and see how I would feel and his shoes. There's no reason to hurt him and he's a nice guy and I like him. I like talking with him. He's never done anything to ask me out or anything like that.
I mean other than me getting annoyed a little bit, there's no harm done. There's no reason to hurt the guy. And that's what I would be doing if I told him anything like hey stop calling me or anything like that.
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It wouldn't hurt the guy if you just make it clear that you're not into guys.
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It wouldn't hurt the guy if you just make it clear that you're not into guys.
But he hasn't done anything to make me point that out. That's the thing.
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"Hey guy, I don't mean to make this weird or anything.. But just so you know, You're firmly friendzoned. In fact... I'm into chicks."
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Lol
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But he hasn't done anything to make me point that out. That's the thing.
Why does he have to do anything? Just bring up some gal who you think is hot, or who you've dated. Even some celebrity if you don't want to get too personal.
I mean, you know he's interested. And you know that you're not into guys. It seems pretty straightforward to me.
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I don't want that to become a discussion.
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Like, none of anyone's business that I like women. I never told anyone that. I still speak with others from my old workplace
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Fair enough. The only other options remaining are to have the friend-zone talk, or keep things are they are.
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I realize that many of your posts are just whimsical musings.. But I also believe you're not opposed to feedback. The longer you delay this eventuality the harder it will be.