But yeah.... this is really important to know -
The ONLY reason why we see recreational sex (sex without making children)...... as "intimate"............. is MERELY due to that when two people engage in it........ we are TRICKED into correlating that with making children.... marriage..... and having a family.
Because of the fact that sex makes children.
And I feel that that is why people do it a lot of the time............... to try to form a kind of "bond" between the other person.
But that "bond" is an illusion.
It's not real.
You only *think* that a type of bond exists as a result of recreational sexual activities because you are fooled by correlating the act of sexual intercourse with having children......... and a family........
But NONE of those things are true.
THAT.... is the ONLY REASON why we see recreational sex (sex without making children) as "intimate".... or "close"......
It's merely due to a FALSE correlation between recreational sexual activities................................. and having children and a family between the people who engage in it.
The truth is................. in reality............... if you are not trying to have children during that act of sex................................. you are merely perving out on the other person.....
No more "intimate" or "close" that perving out on someone in a porno : )